Forgiveness Is Overrated: What Actually Helps You Heal from a Toxic Parent
17 March 2026

Forgiveness Is Overrated: What Actually Helps You Heal from a Toxic Parent

You're Not Crazy: A Podcast for the Adult Children of Parents with Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders

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In this episode, we’re talking about:

    Why forgiveness is often misunderstood Why you don’t need to forgive your parent to heal How focusing on forgiveness can actually keep you stuck The difference between forgiveness and healing Why acceptance is what actually helps you move forward What “radical acceptance” looks like in real life
Listen to learn more about the fallacy of forgiveness and what it actually takes to heal from growing up within a dysfunctional family system.

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