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24 December 2024

How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.

Key Takeaways:

The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being

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20 December 2024

How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.

Key Takeaways:

Exploration of mental health and personal identity The impact of self-talk on well-being The importance of community and shared experiences in healing The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health The concept of comparative suffering and its implications The role of gratitude in mental health and healing The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships

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17 December 2024

Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.

Key Takeaways:

Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function

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13 December 2024

Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.

Key Takeaways:

Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals

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10 December 2024

The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.

Key Takeaways:

Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being

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06 December 2024

The Science of Motivation: Insights on Goal Setting and Willpower with Ayelet Fishbach

Feeling overwhelmed by holiday stress or the pressure to make everything perfect? Or maybe it’s the loneliness this season can bring. Either way, you’re not alone—and this year can be different. Join us for a free online webinar on Sunday, December 10, at 12 PM Eastern to learn a simple habit that can help you let go of stress and find peace, steadiness, and genuine connection. Give yourself this gift of support and clarity for the season. Sign up here.

In this episode, Ayelet Fishbach dives into the science of motivation and shares valuable insights on goal-setting and willpower. As a social psychologist and motivation scientist, her work involves understanding the intricacies of human behavior and environmental influence. Dr. Fishbach also shares a fresh perspective on intrinsic and extrinsic motivation and explains the importance of learning to nurture empathy toward our future selves.

Key Takeaways:

Master effective behavior change strategies to reach your full potential Bust motivational myths and unlock your true drive Craft powerful personal goals that propel you forward Embrace the importance of intrinsic motivation for lasting success Skillfully handle goal competition to stay on your path to achievement

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03 December 2024

Changing How We Choose with David Redish

In this episode, David Redish explains why we should be thinking about changing how we choose and explores the process of decision-making. He discusses the systems our brains use to make decisions and how these systems interact and influence our choices, from everyday decisions to complex moral dilemmas.

Key Takeaways:

The three decision-making systems in our brains and how they function How the way we frame questions can dramatically alter our decisions The role of morality as a tool for fostering cooperation and mutual benefit Practical strategies for aligning our actions with our values The complex nature of addiction and its relationship to decision-making

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29 November 2024

Grounded in Gratitude: Life Lessons from Great Minds

In this special episode on gratitude, you’ll hear life lessons from the great minds of Dr. Nicole LePera, AJ Jacobs, Martha Beck, Susan Cain, and Cory Allen. Throughout these conversations, we explore practical ways to incorporate gratitude into our daily lives, overcome common obstacles to feeling grateful, and use gratitude to enhance our relationships and overall well-being. You’ll find a fresh perspective on gratitude, moving beyond simple platitudes to explore how we can cultivate a deeper, more meaningful sense of appreciation in our lives.

Key Takeaways:

Grasping the power of gratitude when grounded in the present moment Practicing detailed expressions of gratitude to deepen our appreciation Balancing gratitude with acknowledgment of life’s challenges is crucial Cultivating wonder that naturally lead to feelings of gratitude Viewing gratitude as a state of being, rather than just a tool, to provide a solid foundation for navigating life’s ups and downs

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26 November 2024

Surfing the Waves of Time and Finding Balance in a Busy World with Paul Loomans

In this episode, Paul Looman explains the meaning of surfing the waves of time and how we can start finding balance in a busy world. He shares insights from his 40 years of Zen practice and his work helping individuals and groups find calm amidst chaos. We discuss how traditional time management techniques often fall short and why a more intuitive approach can lead to greater productivity and peace of mind.

Key Takeaways:

The connection between Zen practice and effective time management How to transition from control to trust in managing our time The importance of doing one thing at a time and truly finishing it Creating “breathers” between activities to enhance creativity and clarity Transforming tasks into manageable items Observing and working with background mental programs like worry and hurt Developing and trusting our intuition for prioritizing tasks

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22 November 2024

Small Steps to Happiness: The Science of Mindful Living with Laurie Santos

In this episode, Dr. Laurie Santos discusses the importance of taking small steps to find happiness and the science of mindful living. She reminds us that happiness is not a destination, but a practice. By understanding the science behind well-being and implementing small, consistent changes, we can learn how to apply these insights to our own lives to find greater joy and fulfillment.

Key Takeaways:

Embrace the power of small, consistent actions in shaping our happiness Understand how our environment and social connections influence our behavior Learn the common misconceptions about what truly makes us happy Discover strategies for overcoming loneliness and building meaningful connections

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