Does your marriage feel more… normal than magical these days?
If you've ever thought, "We lost the spark," "We're basically roommates," or "Is this all there is?"—this episode is for you.
In Part 3 of my 7 Connection Killers series (inspired by Dr. Matt Townsend's work), we're talking about our preference for novelty—how our brains are wired to chase what's new and exciting, and how that can quietly sabotage long-term connection if we don't understand it.
In this episode, you'll hear:
Why your brain loved the early "spark" (dopamine + novelty)
How comfort and safety can get mislabeled as "boring"
Why you don't usually "fall out of love"… you just stop looking for it
Dr. Matt Townsend's hack: Practice caring curiosity with your partner
Simple "curiosity practices" you can try this week:
Doing the opposite (talk less / talk more)
Asking one new question each day
Joining your spouse's hobby
Learning something new together
Doing one exhilarating thing as a team
You don't need a brand new love story—you might just need new eyes for the one you already have.
✨ Next step:
Read the companion blog for this episode on my site:
https://taraleeeddington.com/blog/when-familiar-love-feels-boring-our-preference-for-novelty-in-marriage
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