Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. I’m sharing a personal opinion and where my head and heart are right now. The last year has been a roller coaster for me. I’m feeling stronger again and working hard on my health, faith, and mindset. Today I speak as a dad of a non-speaking child who needs high support. I love every family on the spectrum, and I also need space to say this with care: please be gentle if your experience looks different from ours. The public fights, politics, and anger hurt the very kids we all care about. I want more research, clearer information, and less shaming. I’m not a savior. I’m a leader learning to serve, listen, and point to hope.
Key Takeaways
Loud political fights drain energy from real solutions. Kids need love, safety, and practical help.
The spectrum is wide. Families with non-speaking, high-support kids face different daily risks, needs, and stress.
Progress is possible when we work our bodies, minds, and spirits on purpose.
Feelings go up and down. That’s normal. You are not your thoughts.
Ask real questions. Study the data. Keep an open mind. Curiosity beats combat.
Leaders serve. They do not rescue. I can point to options, share our story, and protect my family’s peace.
Give parents grace. Do not blame yourself for what you did not know.
Community matters. Reach out, share encouragement, and support caregivers who feel alone.
Even a 1 percent gain adds up. Small steps, steady hope.
Pray, research, and keep going. Our kids deserve our best attention.
Resources
Podcast: Unspecial Special Needs Refined with Zach Ponder
Podcast: Experience Miracles
Autism Dad Memes on Instagram (Chris)
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