Why “boy" culture is creating a crisis of connection, with Niobe Way, PhD
27 August 2025

Why “boy" culture is creating a crisis of connection, with Niobe Way, PhD

Speaking of Psychology

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Many boys form deep friendships in childhood. But as they become teens, they report fewer close, rich friendships. Niobe Way, PhD, author of “Rebels With a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves and Our Culture,” discusses “boy" culture; why boys are naturally as emotionally intelligent as girls; the societal pressures that lead to disconnection among boys as they grow into men; and how teaching students to listen with curiosity can help them deepen connections and friendships.

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Chapters



01:37 Understanding Boy Culture and Its Impact

03:43 The Evolution of Boys' Friendships

10:04 Why Boys and Men are Struggling

20:22 Cultural Insights from Boys and Men of Color

24:46 "Boy" Culture in China

31:29 Listening with Curiosity: A Path to Connection
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