Why Kissing Exists — Across Species | Smartest Year Ever (Dec 30, 2025)

 As New Year’s Eve approaches, millions of people will share a midnight kiss—or strategically avoid one. Kissing feels timeless, intimate, and deeply human. But it isn’t universal. And it isn’t uniquely ours.

In this episode of Smartest Year Ever, Gordy explores why kissing exists, what actually qualifies as a “kiss,” and how similar behaviors appear across the animal kingdom. From primate reconciliation rituals to avian pair-bonding, from chemical communication to social stress reduction, this episode examines kissing through the lens of evolutionary biology, anthropology, and animal behavior.

Rather than treating kissing as a single act, this episode places it on a biological spectrum of affiliative behaviors—tools shaped by evolution to build trust, reduce aggression, assess mates, and reinforce social bonds. Along the way, Gordy examines how humans turned a practical evolutionary behavior into romance, ritual, and symbolism—while other species kept it brutally functional.

This episode blends human ethology, comparative psychology, and animal social behavior to ask a deceptively simple question: why do mouths—across species—keep becoming social tools?

If you’ve ever assumed kissing was universal, instinctive, or uniquely human, this episode will quietly dismantle that assumption—without ruining the surprise.

Music thanks to Zapsplat.

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