Don't Launch to Crickets: Validate Your Offer Before You Build [Ep. 185]

Stop Throwing Parties to Empty Rooms: Why You Need Validation Before Creation

Have you ever planned an event with your whole heart? You've got the decorations, the snacks, the music, the lighting—maybe even that cute sign by the door. You clean the house, light the candles, bring out the good china. You're buzzing with excitement because you know lives are about to be changed.

And then 6:00 PM comes. No one's there.

The doorbell rings—it's your mom. (Thanks, Mom.) A few minutes later, your two friends who you bribed with snacks arrive. 6:30 comes. 7:00 PM comes. And then you realize: no one else is coming.

You close down the party with that sinking feeling mixed with embarrassment and disappointment, asking yourself: Is there something wrong with me?

But here's the truth: Nothing is wrong with you. Nothing was wrong with your excitement, your belief, or your heart.

The only missing piece? Validation before creation.

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The Empty Room Problem in Online Business

This exact scenario plays out every single day in the online business world—especially for kingdom women entrepreneurs who build in isolation.

We invest time, energy, and emotion creating programs, courses, and offers before even checking if our people want them. We plan, polish, and perfect. We buy the tech, make the slides, record the lessons, pick the fonts. Then we plan, polish, and perfect again.

And when we finally throw the doors open to our product, we're praying people come rushing in.

Except they don't.

Suddenly it feels like that empty house on party day. You're looking at your work thinking, Lord, did I get this wrong? Did I misunderstand the assignment?

But here's what you need to know: Nothing is wrong with your passion, your calling, or your heart. The Lord wants you to bring that heavenly solution down to that earthly problem.

The problem wasn't your offer. It was your approach.

Why We Build in Bubbles

I see so many kingdom women accidentally repeating this pattern:

Build the curriculum first
Record all the lessons
Design the workbook
Set up the software
Pick the fonts
Then pray it sells

But we never actually ask real humans along the way. We never get feedback. We never test the idea out loud. We build the entire party without knowing who is actually planning to show up.

The solution? A founding member launch that validates your offer idea before you spend months building it.

What Really Holds Us Back

When I work with clients, I see three main reasons we don't put our offers out into the world:

1. Fear (Disguised as Protection)

Fear shows up as procrastination or protection. We procrastinate because we're protecting ourselves from something:

Backlash from friends or family
What coworkers might think
Fear of failure
Fear of success

Ask yourself: What am I protecting myself from?

2. Unknown Territory

Your brain is wired to keep you safe in the familiar. When you step into unknown territory—like launching your first program—your brain sends off alarm signals.

We label those sensations as fear or overwhelm. But really, it's just your brain doing its job, letting you know you're in unfamiliar territory. And that's okay. Because as soon as you do the thing, it becomes familiar. And you start getting the feedback you need.

3. Technology Perfectionism

The link's not perfect. The email automation isn't exactly set up right. The landing page could be better.

Yes, we want to put exceptional things into the world because we're kingdom women entrepreneurs, and all glory goes to our Heavenly Father. But when we wait until it's perfect, we've waited too long.

Because feedback and data are what you need to tweak and get clear on what you're doing.

Here's What You Need to Understand

The feedback you get doesn't mean anything about you. Your identity is rooted in Christ Jesus. Your calling and mission are rooted in the One who called you.

The data just tells you what needs to be tweaked:

Maybe your messaging wasn't clear
Your opt-in page didn't call out your ideal client
Your offer structure needs adjustment
Your call to action wasn't strong enough

But you won't know any of this until you actually put your content, message, or offer out there.

What You Lose When You Don't Launch

When you don't put that idea or offer into the world, you lose:

The data you need to make improvements
Momentum that creates excitement and results
Courage as that fire inside begins to dim
Impact because people are waiting for your heavenly solution
Income because you're not selling your product or service

You stay in preparation mode instead of activation mode.

The First Stage is Supposed to Be Messy

Here's what no one's telling you: The first stage of your business is supposed to be messy.

The women making $5K, $10K, $20K months? They didn't wait for perfection. They launched scrappy. They adjusted and gathered real feedback. That's where you build momentum.

Treat Your Business Like a Scientist

I approach my business like a mad scientist—and I want you to do the same.

Think in experiments and hypotheses. Your founding member launch is an experiment you're testing. When something unexpected happens—revenue dropping, an email flopping, a message that doesn't resonate—don't panic.

Instead, think: Ooh, I wonder why that happened. I wonder what will happen if...

Because nothing in business or life is irreversible:

Broken funnel? No big deal. It's just business Legos. Take it apart, rebuild, make it stronger.
Lost money? Money ebbs and flows. The Lord is your provider.
Screwed up a message? Congratulations—you just earned a PhD in what not to do.

To me, the worst outcome isn't failure. It's never knowing. I don't want to live with the question of "what if" because there was a moment I could have been brave enough to find out, but I didn't.

What Happens When You Actually Get Feedback

When you put your idea out there and get feedback, you receive:

Real, actionable data—not theories or opinions. Evidence of what's working and what's not.

Message clarity—Your message gets louder, stronger, and clearer once you start getting it out there and your ideal clients give you feedback.

Momentum—Results create excitement, and excitement creates momentum you can capitalize on.

Confidence—Actually doing the thing, getting feedback, making tweaks, and seeing results builds confidence that no amount of planning ever will.

Check Your Alignment

Sometimes you can have all the tech working, your messaging on point, your funnel running smoothly, and things still aren't clicking. That's when you need to check:

Am I in alignment with my kingdom assignment?

We can have all the business strategies in the world, but if we're not in alignment with where the Lord wants us to go, some things won't work as well. Spend time with your Heavenly Board of Directors to make sure you're aligned.

Your Action Step Today

Whatever that thing is that you need to put out into the world for feedback—whether it's a piece of content, a post, a podcast episode, or that offer you've been sitting on—validate it.

Put it out into the world. Get the feedback you need.

Stop building in isolation. Stop hoping enthusiasm will equal engagement. Stop throwing parties to empty rooms.

Start testing. Start gathering data. Start building momentum.

Because there are people waiting for your heavenly solution to their earthly problem. And they can't benefit from what you never release.

Ready to Stop Building in Isolation?

If you haven't yet seen consistent $2K-$3K months, it's time to discover the Idea to Income Method—my proven system and the fastest way to launch a profitable, impactful, and sustainable business by God's design.

Join the Idea to Income Live Activation Experience

This FREE 3-day event will help you turn your God-given idea into a profitable offer that actually sells.

Most kingdom women spend six months (or six years) trying to perfect the right niche, the perfect branding, every module—before anyone buys. They build first and pray it works. Then what happens? They launch once, or never at all, and hear crickets. Or maybe they get a buyer or two, but there's no momentum, no consistency, and no repeatable system.

Not because the idea was wrong, but because they built it in isolation with no buyer validation, no market feedback, and no demand before delivery.

That's not going to be you.

In Just 3 Days, You'll Discover How To:

✓ Break free from the "I need to niche down" trap that's keeping you stuck
✓ End the start-stop cycle that's wasting your time and energy
✓ Validate your offer BEFORE spending months building it
✓ Launch scrappy and gather real feedback that creates momentum
✓ Build a scalable, validated offer that actually sells
✓ Finally hit those consecutive $2K-$3K months with confidence

This Event is Perfect For You If:

You know you're called to entrepreneurship but keep second-guessing your idea
You've been "preparing" for months (or years) but haven't launched yet
You've launched before but heard crickets and don't know why
You're tired of building in isolation and want real market feedback
You're ready to stop guessing and start getting paid to create your offer

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Remember: Success in online business is all about curiosity, not certainty. Give yourself permission to try things that might not work. Because everything in business is an experiment, and every "failure" is just feedback and data you need to succeed.