S4:E12 When Love Means Letting Go of Self: Not Just Another Marriage Episode with The Zindelas

Sundays are for lovers!! On this episode of Living in Fullness, my husband and I had the honor of hosting Lindo and Zikona Zindela - marriage, love, and cooking content creators who are as authentic offline as they are online. We dive deep into their journey from dating to marriage, exploring everything from vulnerability, unmet expectations, and navigating different relationships with money, to balancing being a provider while staying emotionally present.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this conversation will bless you and remind you that marriage isn't just about finding the right person — it's about becoming the right partner every day.

Tap in for laughter, wisdom, and beautiful honesty!

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Chapters:

00:00 Coming Up: Real, Raw & Relatable

02:00 Meet Your Hosts and Guests

04:17 Fun Ice-Breakers

10:45 Get to Know the Zindelas: Love, Content Creation, and Faith

17:37 Dating vs. Marriage: Losing and Finding Each Other Again

21:10 Unmet Expectations: What Shaped Their Views on Marriage

32:02 Zikona: Learning to Let Go After Growing Up with a Single Mum

36:46 Money Matters: Navigating Different Financial Backgrounds

38:24 Lindo: "I Earned Less Than Her and Ended Up in Debt"

45:29 The Tug-of-War: Vulnerability vs. Strength in Marriage

56:16 Provider vs. Presence: Balancing Work and Family Time

57:29 Exercising the Working on your Marriage Muscle: Their Advice

01:02:10 Final Flowers and Where to Find the Zindelas