Why "we should hang out" won't make you real friends
09 February 2026

Why "we should hang out" won't make you real friends

Life Kit

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Ready to turn that work bestie into a real friend? Or maybe you want to hang outside run club with your fun jogging buddy? In this episode, Kat Vellos, author of We Should Get Together, explains how to turn acquaintances into real friends — and how to foster the connection you’re seeking.

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