Episode 084: Surrendered Sexuality: Dr. Juli Slattery on Identity, Healing, and Covenant Love

Why is sexuality one of the hardest topics for Christians to talk about—yet one of the most important areas to surrender to Jesus?

In this episode of the Let’s Get Real Podcast, Justin and Trisha sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery—clinical psychologist, author, and founder of Authentic Intimacy—for an honest conversation about sexual brokenness, shame, identity, and healing.

Juli shares why the Church has often avoided meaningful conversations about sexuality and how behavior-focused teaching without discipleship leaves people stuck. Instead of offering more rules or silence, she invites us into something deeper: surrendered sexuality rooted in identity in Christ.

Together, they unpack:

Why shame keeps people trapped

How purity culture left many unprepared for healthy intimacy

The difference between conviction and shame

Sex as a symbol and celebration of covenant, not just an expression of feelings

What “mature sexual love” actually looks like in marriage

If you’ve ever felt confused, discouraged, or alone in this area, this episode offers both truth and hope.

Links and/or Resources

Authentic Intimacy: AuthenticIntimacy.com
Juli’s Podcast: Java with Juli
Book Featured in This Episode: Surrendered Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery
Follow Juli on YouTube + Instagram