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315: Red Flags, Green Flags, or Just Normal Marriage?
26 October 2026

315: Red Flags, Green Flags, or Just Normal Marriage?

Kingdom Sexuality

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Think your spouse’s habits are a green flag, a red flag, or just a “nothing burger”? Tune in to hear the KS team chat through some scenarios that our Instagram followers once wondered, "Is this normal?" Some of them are going to surprise you...



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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 – Open and welcome

00:31 – Show intro and today's verse (Ephesians 4:15)

01:02 – Instagram questions and a sponsor break

01:35 – Setting up the green, yellow and red flag game

03:12 – Sleeping in separate rooms because of snoring

04:16 – Tangent on nose strips

04:50 – Different bedtimes (11 PM vs. 3:30 AM)

07:03 – Husband plays video games after work

09:45 – Too much phone time (the daughter yelling "daddy")

10:46 – Husband cooks and preps meals, wife cleans up

11:16 – Never having an orgasm with penetration

12:00 – Couples who don't watch the same shows

14:30 – Promo for the Out of Sync course on mismatched libido

15:50 – Wife rejects intimacy before a work trip, then helps herself when he's gone

16:36 – Two king-size beds pushed together

18:38 – Trusting your husband about porn or cheating

19:20 – Wife wants to be led but won't give up control

20:12 – Wife leaves her shoes everywhere (and the shoes-in-the-house tangent)

22:19 – Couples who don't talk while eating

24:10 – Getting ready for bed at different times

24:50 – Husband loses his erection during long foreplay

25:36 – Wife doesn't know what turns her on

26:10 – Closing round: a green flag in each host's marriage

27:10 – Wrap-up and sign-off

27:41 – Closing prayer
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