421. He Said, She Said: The Systems & Boundaries That Saved Our Marriage (and Our Sanity)

Let's talk about systems and boundaries with my husband Dan Martell.

Once me and Dan met, our relationship moved quickly. Between navigating businesses and raising babies, we didn't have much time for each other. In the midst of all this, there were also multiple moves. It was the ultimate test.

Along the way, we've learned to implement systems in our lives to keep things running smoothly. In this episode, we're sharing how we do date night, the role feedback plays in our parenting, and how we use our calendar to support our success and sanity.

In this episode, you will learn about:

What happened when we met for the first time in person (it was a flop). Where we both were personally and professionally when we met. Why being growth-focused was so important for our relationship. How we approached raising our kids differently, and why we had to. Why we kept hiring help a big secret for a long time. How we created the most effective schedule for our lives and what it looks like. How taking time for myself has made my relationships so much better. How we spend solo time differently and why it works for us.

 

 

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Connect with Dan:

www.instagram.com/danmartell www.danmartell.com

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