I am what the gworls would call a “soft top”.
I like to do all the traditionally masculine things, but I also am fully a butch queen. I haven’t been fucked in years and don’t have a whole lot of interest in being fucked, but I would for the right person as long as they know how to handle my delicate flower.
Fun Fact: someone once called it a slut with my dick but a prude with my hole.
1. The Top Drought (00:00:00)
2. Church Announcements: The Blog and a Hookup Story (00:01:52)
3. Understanding Bottom’s Non-Verbal Cues (00:08:52)
4. Critiquing Queer Culture and Fetishization (00:41:52)
5. The Fetishization of Masculinity (00:22:52)
6. The Evolution of Queer Identities (00:55:14)
7. The Dangers of Narrow Definitions (00:30:02)
8. The Four Kinds of Vers (01:16:19)
9. Patriarchy in Queer Relationships (01:05:06)
10. The Value of Sex and Self-Awareness (01:19:05)
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