Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

I am what the gworls would call a “soft top”.I like to do all the traditionally masculine things, but I also am fully a butch queen. I haven’t been fucked in years and don’t have a whole lot of interest in being fucked, but I would for the right person as long as they know how to handle my delicate flower.Fun Fact: someone once called it a slut with my dick but a prude with my hole.1. The Top...

I like being naked. I like being naked with other men. And I like being naked when sex has nothing to do with it…but it can.I call that being a nudist, but sometimes terms like kink, or nudist, or voyeur don’t resonate with Black men. But can they? Or should they?So tonight, I’m joined by the promoter behind the biggest wave of nudist club nights for cis men by a Black promoter. I’ve attended his...

When I walk into any pride celebration, there are a couple things that connect me and most of the men present. Number 1: we’re all men and Number 2: we’re attracted to men. But what happens when only one of those apply to all of us and how do we create pride celebrations that affirm all of our experiences.So tonight I’m joined by A’Jay Love. He’s a trans masc creator who gained prominence when he...

These couples uncover the secrets to successfully navigating the dating pool as I abruptly find myself back in it.* 00:00:00 - Introduction: Three Rules for Finding a Man* 00:01:11 - Applying the Lessons & Welcome* 00:02:02 - Personal Update: Dealing with a Breakup* 00:04:50 - The Danger of Denying Emotions After a Breakup* 00:09:25 - Finding a Good Man: Setting Intention* 00:11:02 -...

My inadequacies around relationship stemmed from times when my feelings were disregarded. I learned, having been on the receiving end of emotional trauma, that there are three basic agreements at work in any relationship. Nailing these will help quell the inadequacies and insecurities so many of us experience in our partners, and make way for clear agreements that both (or all) involved can be...

This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:How "coming out" goes way further than just telling people you're gay. It's an everyday process that starts with yourself.NEW CONTENT, every day on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymenSubscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentlemanShop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shopListen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3CvMjThListen on Apple Podcasts:...

This week Jai The Gentleman discusses the last relationship he was in and how Black queer culture tried to destroy it. And how you can safeguard your relationship from the triggers that come from the gworls.00:00 Introduction to Black Gay Culture and Relationships 01:04 Welcome to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast 01:47 Personal Dating Experiences and Vulnerability 03:11 Church Announcements and...

Read “I made 6 guys cum at the park” https://bit.ly/4jFmRx3Chapters00:00 The Importance of Sex in Relationships 00:57 Introduction to the Podcast 01:56 Church Announcements 04:21 Signs of a Healthy Relationship 08:35 The Complexity of Relationships 13:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop ➡️ Become an Insider:...

A trip to Atlanta's nude club night, "Reveal," taught me that I'm probably better off single in this season of life.Read "I Made 6 Guys Cum At The Park" https://bit.ly/4jFmRx3--Chapters00:00 Introduction to Single Life Levels 00:09 Coincidentally Single 00:39 Intentionally Single 00:56 Temporarily Single 01:28 Podcast Introduction 02:09 Church Announcements 05:12 Breakup Reflections 07:53 Lessons...

00:00 Introduction: Post-Breakup Reflections01:31 New Features: Substack and Live Shows04:10 Church Announcements: Updates and Membership04:42 Personal Story: Lessons from a Breakup07:51 Dating Insights: Commitment and Communication17:44 Final Thoughts: The Importance of Perseverance23:53 Closing Remarks: Stay Connected This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other...