257. What Reality TV Says About Dating Culture (And What We Can Learn) w/ Dear Shandy
24 April 2026

257. What Reality TV Says About Dating Culture (And What We Can Learn) w/ Dear Shandy

Dating Intentionally

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I'm chatting with Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine, the husband-and-wife hosts of Dear Shandy, one of my favorite reality TV recap podcasts. We're discussing everything from what Love Is Blind contestants keep getting wrong (and how it mirrors real life) to why Andy believes online dating is the slow death of modern romance, to how to bring up the "big" topics on a first date. This episode is packed with practical dating advice from a couple who have seen it all. At the end, we tackle a dating dilemma from a woman who's not sure whether her boyfriend's travel issues are a dealbreaker.


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