254. Breadcrumbed by a Bartender, Boring Dates & Low Attraction (Dating Dilemmas)
14 April 2026

254. Breadcrumbed by a Bartender, Boring Dates & Low Attraction (Dating Dilemmas)

Dating Intentionally

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In this episode, I'm answering four listener dating dilemmas, from deciding whether a "boring" but stable guy is worth more dates to navigating attraction when everything else aligns, to catching feelings for a newly single college friend, to dealing with a breadcrumbing bartender. I'm sharing how to tell the difference between "boring" and "bored," a better way to think about attraction, and why "right person, wrong time" is a trap.

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