Love Is Not Found. It Is Built. | 10 Jewish Relationship Truths for Tu B’Av
Daily Jewish Thought
Tu B’Av is often called the Jewish day of love. In this special Tu B’Av discussion, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath, known as the “Love Rabbi” shares ten essential Jewish relationship principles for singles, couples, and anyone seeking to build deeper, healthier love.
Drawing from Torah, Jewish wisdom, matchmaking experience, and years of counselling singles and couples, Rabbi Bernath explores why dating is not a performance, why chemistry must never outrun character, how to distinguish genuine needs from unrealistic checklists, and why love is not simply something we find, it is something we build.
This class offers practical guidance for dating with clarity, choosing with wisdom, communicating honestly, repairing conflict, and creating a relationship rooted in generosity, commitment, faith, and emotional responsibility.
10 Jewish Relationship Truths
- Know Who You Are Before Asking Someone Else to Join YouDon’t Become Good at Dating—Become Good at RelatingStop Auditioning for LoveDon’t Let Chemistry Outrun CharacterTalk About What Matters Before the WeddingLook for Your Complement, Not Your CloneKnow Your Essentials, but Don’t Worship Your ChecklistLove Grows Through Giving, but Giving Is Not Self-ErasureLove Is Not Tit for TatDon’t Date the Relationship to Death
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