One of the most common things women say after cancer treatment is, “I just don’t feel like myself anymore.”
Sometimes those words come quietly. Sometimes they come with tears. And often, they are followed by guilt because you know you are alive, you know you have survived, and you feel as though you should be grateful.
In this episode of Confidence After Cancer, Gabby explores the grief that can come with losing the version of yourself you were before cancer.
Cancer changes far more than your body. It can affect your confidence, your identity, your relationships, your priorities, your career, and your sense of safety. Yet when treatment ends, there is often an expectation that life will simply return to normal.
The truth is, the woman who began treatment has been changed by everything she has lived through.
Gabby talks about why so many women spend years trying to get their old selves back and why that can leave them feeling even more disconnected. She also shares a powerful alternative: allowing yourself to grow forward instead of constantly trying to return to the past.
This episode is an invitation to acknowledge the grief, honour who you have been, and begin exploring who you might become next.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode- Why not feeling like yourself is so common after cancerHow cancer can change your identity as well as your bodyWhy grief after treatment is not only about what happenedThe pressure many women feel to return to normalWhy chasing your old self can keep you feeling stuckWhat it means to grow forward rather than go backwardsHow confidence can be rebuilt one decision at a timeWhy healthier boundaries, rest and self-trust can become part of your new chapterHow finding purpose can support your recovery after treatment
Resources & Links:
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