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Ep. 407: Day Zero Jiu-Jitsu, feat. Jesse Walker & Shelby York
07 September 2026

Ep. 407: Day Zero Jiu-Jitsu, feat. Jesse Walker & Shelby York

BJJ Mental Models

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This week, we're joined by Jesse Walker and Shelby York! Jesse and Shelby own Rough Hands BJJ in Louisville, Kentucky, a gym of about 200 students with an unusually high number of women and older grapplers (the average student is around 43). In this episode, they walk a complete beginner through what happens before your first jiu-jitsu class. Topics include: vetting a gym, what to bring, why you should tap early, panic and intensity, injury risk.

Learn more at Rough Hands BJJ:
https://roughhandsbjj.com

Follow Jesse and Shelby at Rough Hands BJJ on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/roughhandsbjj


Resources discussed in this episode:

Yoga for BJJ, by Sebastian Brosche:
https://yogaforbjj.net

Women's Grappling Network on Facebook:
https://facebook.com/groups/341922519178021


Mental models discussed in this episode:

    Keep It Playful
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/keep-it-playful

    Psychological Safety
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/psychological-safety

    Acute Stress Response
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/acute-stress-response

    Prioritize Longevity
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/prioritize-longevity

    Survival Mode
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/survival-mode

    Compatible Intent
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/compatible-intent

    Respect Your Opponent
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/respect-your-opponent

    Investing in Loss
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/investing-in-loss

    Beginner's Mind
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/beginners-mind

    Motivation
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/continuum-of-motivation

    Prevention Over Cure
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/prevention-over-cure

    Paradox of Tolerance
    https://bjjmentalmodels.com/paradox-of-tolerance


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