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172: Selfish Girl Blueprint: Stop Being Nice and Get The Life You Want
05 July 2026

172: Selfish Girl Blueprint: Stop Being Nice and Get The Life You Want

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

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Your nice girl personality has got you this far. But it's also why you're exhausted, resentful, and running on empty.


In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness isn't a flaw it's the missing ingredient keeping you from the life you actually want.


– Nice girls abandon themselves before anyone else can

– The world rewards agreeable women until it doesn't

– Selfless women become resentful — and it poisons everything

– People don't respect women who don't respect themselves

– Being needed is not the same as being loved

– Stop auditioning — you already have the role

– Selfish women ask for more and get more

– Boundaries don't lose good people — they expose bad ones

– Stop managing everyone else's emotions

– Every successful woman disappoints someone

– Selfish women actually give more — that's the paradox

– Becoming your own favourite person


If you've ever felt like you give everything and still feel invisible,  resentful but unable to explain why, or like your whole identity is 

built around being useful — this episode is for you.

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Love you lots like jelly tots xx

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