Why Some People Just Click (and Others Don’t) | Maya Rossignac-Milon

What does it mean to truly “click” with someone—and why does it matter so much at work? With researcher Maya Rossignac-Milon, we explore the science of shared reality and how authentic, off-script interactions lead to stronger relationships, greater meaning, and better performance. This episode reframes connection not as a bonus, but as a core driver of success.

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[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Maya Rossignac-Milon

[10:11] Defining Shared Reality

[14:43] Reality and Work Performance

[19:22] How Shared Reality Can Help You Achieve Your Goals

[24:28] Research and Collaboration

[27:41] The Benefits of Riffing

[37:29] Shared Reality and Romantic Partners

[42:32] Fighting a Culture of Individualism

[50:20] Desert Island Music

[54:20] Grooving Session: Finding Alignment and Making Connections

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