Should influence be about getting to “yes”? With Brian Ahearn, we explore a more ethical approach where persuasion is a responsibility, humility drives leadership, and real impact comes from helping others make better decisions.
Topics
[0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Brian Ahearn
[8:10] The Line Between Influence and Manipulation
[12:25] Why Intent Matters in Persuasion
[16:40] Aligning Influence with Personal Values
[21:05] The Role of Humility in Leadership
[25:30] Emotional Reactions and Decision-Making
[30:15] Influencing Hearts vs Minds
[35:40] Small Actions, Identity, and the Consistency Principle
[42:41] Desert Island Music
[50:31] Grooving Session: Helping People Decide Better
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Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight