It's Not Too Late: Why Age Is Your Unfair Advantage as a Writer

Published: December 16, 2025

Episode Summary

Tom addresses one of the most common fears holding back aspiring writers: the belief that it's too late to make a career change into writing. Drawing from his own life of constant pivots and reinvention, he makes a powerful case for why age, experience, and maturity aren't limitations—they're your secret weapons in a world drowning in shallow, AI-generated content.

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The Question Tom Keeps Hearing

The Pattern: People later in life—those who've always had the writing itch—reach out riddled with:

Fear of starting too late

Imposter syndrome

The belief that it's too late to make a pivot

Romanticizing the writing career but feeling paralyzed

Tom's Message: If you feel like it's too late—this episode is for you.

Tom's Life: A Series of Pivots

Tom's Journey at Nearly 50:

Early Dreams (Failed):

Wanted to be a military pilot

Wasn't the best student, didn't apply himself

Couldn't get accepted into aviation programs

Switched majors multiple times

Aviation major → abandoned when flying career seemed impossible

The Florida Years (2004):

Moved to pursue civilian aviation career

Ran out of money

Had to pivot again

The Software Years:

Leveraged computer science/information systems degree

Became a software engineer for ~5 years

Started his own software company

Built and sold the company in 2022

The Writing Pivot (Age 46):

Tired of running a company and the pressure

Wanted to slow the pace down

Fantasized about being a writer

Wanted to share thoughts, provide value, build something meaningful

Just did it—took on the identity and became it

Tom's Reflection: "My life is a series of attempts of trying something, failing, and then making a pivot and then doing something else. And eventually you land on the thing that you should be doing."

"I'm 50 years old and I'm still doing new things. I'm still exploring new things."

Why Age Is Your Unfair Advantage (Not a Limitation)

What You Bring to the Table:

Experience from decades of living

Emotional depth

Life's adventures—the ups and downs

Successes AND failures

Wins and losses

All the human complexity that comes with years

Why This Matters Now More Than Ever:

"Especially today, and certainly in the future, being able to write from the heart, write with passion and vulnerability, and really bringing the humanity back to writing—we're all getting exhausted, we're all getting AI fatigue. Content is just spewing everywhere."

The Cutting Edge: "When you're writing from a place of experience and pain and happiness and all those human emotions, when you're writing from that place, that comes through in your work. That is gonna cut through the noise. I guarantee it will."

The Premium Skill: Writing with:

Passion

Vulnerability

Humanity

Emotional authenticity

Real experience

This is becoming premium content in an AI-saturated world.

The Practical Approach: Embody It Now

Reference to Episode 6: Go back and listen to "The Identity Shift" episode. The same principles apply here.

The Process:

Make the decision: "I'm a writer"

Embody the mindset of a writer

Put one foot in front of the other

Start doing it for yourself

Opportunities will open up

Tom's Experience: "When I started to write, I said, I wanna be a writer. I didn't exactly know what that was gonna look like. I didn't know I was gonna be a ghost writer. But that's just what happened. It happened that way because I embodied the mindset of a writer. I put one foot in front of the other. I started doing it for myself, and opportunities opened up."

If You're Still in a 9-to-5: Maybe you can't embody the full writing lifestyle yet. But you can switch your mindset. In your mind, you're a writer. At some point it will manifest itself for you.

The Honest Reality Check

Tom's Self-Assessment: "I'm not the role model, like perfect... I'm a collection of failures that just happened to land, got lucky a couple times, and landed in the right spot. So I'm not sitting here telling you that it's easy or anything like that, but it's doable."

What Tom's Good At: Visualization. Seeing what he wants to become and moving toward it.

The Obstacles:

Money issues

Life circumstances

Other factors that prevent follow-through

Having to do other things

But: "There are always opportunities, and if you wanna do something, you can do it. Age is not a limiting factor. It's your unfair advantage."

Famous Late Bloomers in Writing

Raymond Chandler - Published first novel at 51 (The Big Sleep)

Toni Morrison - Published The Bluest Eye at 40

Frank McCourt - Published Angela's Ashes at 66

The lesson: It's never too late.

Confronting the Fear

What's Really Happening: "This is just procrastination. This is just your body—it's something that's scary. And you're allowing yourself to have these thoughts of 'I'm too old to pivot.'"

The Truth About Pivoting:

Tom's life is a series of pivots

Pivoting is good for you

Yes, you sometimes have to hit the reset button

That's okay

The Hard Truth About Starting: "You won't be good enough. You're not good enough right now. If you're just getting started and you're doing this for the first time, you're not gonna be good enough. But you have to practice. You have to get out there and do it to get better."

Steven Pressfield's Wisdom

On Time: "Life is not short, it's very long. There's plenty of time for you to do things."

But Also: "Don't wait. If there's a passion, if there's something that's burning inside you and something that you want to do and you want to pursue it—embrace it. Embody it. Become it."

Tom's Action Challenge

Pick ONE Thing Today:

Examples:

Send that email to that person

Write that first shitty paragraph

Publish your first LinkedIn post

Publish your first Substack post

Do SOMETHING that moves you forward

Why This Works: That one step will build momentum.

The Visualization Process

Tom's Approach:

Think about your goal

See it

Visualize it

Take one step today

The Reality:

Sometimes it doesn't pan out (other factors involved)

Money and life can prevent follow-through

Not everything works perfectly

But opportunities always exist

The Key: "Look at people that are doing it. What are they doing? How are they embodying it? Really immerse yourself in it."

Key Quotes

"Don't allow yourself to believe that your age is a limiting factor. If anything, your age is your unfair advantage."

"You're bringing so much experience to the table, so much emotion, so much of life's adventure... all the ups and downs and all the successes and all the failures—it's all being brought to bear on your writing."

"Everyone's on a different path. Everyone's on a different journey."

"Life is short, but it's also... very long. There's plenty of time for you to do things."

The Bottom Line

Don't Be Fearful: If you want to make a transition later in life—into writing or anything else—don't be afraid.

Embrace Your Assets:

Your age

Your maturity

Your experience

Your passion

Your human complexity

Take Action Today: Put one foot in front of the other. Pick one thing and make a step forward. That will build the momentum.

Holiday Break: No episode December 23-29

Next Episode: Early January 2026

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays! Whatever you're celebrating, have a great one.

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