#AskAMan

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated. They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman. Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this...

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties. However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he...

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s. The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either. She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life....

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now. Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021. In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially...

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating. He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this. After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant. She broke things off...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years. She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media. He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like...

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now. She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl. She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child...

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together. She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him. Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in...

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages. Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her. She found out about this, they worked through it...

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it. She tried to break-up with him after this revelation...