#AskAMan

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other. He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an...

Anonymous called us in September last year as he was caught between is main partner and his side, and couldn’t decide which one to forward with. After he called us last year he decided to continue with his long-term partner and they got married. Everything was fine until his ex-side girl reached out to him. They met, but now the side says she wants nothing to do with him. He says he was over her...

Anonymous met a guy early in 2025 and after a lengthy talking stage, they started dating in March last year. Everything was going well in the relationship, but three months in, she got a call from a woman who claimed to be this man’s wife and despite his initial denials, this was confirmed.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about four years now and says things have been going relatively well between them. She recently had a minor car accident and the doctors advised that she might experience some changes in her period as a result of the impact of the accident. A week after the accident her and her partner had sex but shortly after this he accused her of cheating on...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 8 years now and they have two children together. Things got tricky in their relationship and they broke things off. She moved on into a new relationship after she realised that the father of her children had already moved on. The new partner is amazing and she feels like he ticks all the boxes. However, her long-term partner has now come back into her...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about three years. And says things were fine until he moved to another province because of work. His partner seems to have developed a drinking problem and she is now drinking on a daily basis. He has confronted her about this, but she’s blamed her drinking on the fact that he’s now in a different province. He doesn’t know how to deal with this...

Anonymous started dating her partner late last year after having a crush on her for many years. After they decided to start dating, her partner revealed that she has a child, something anonymous wasn’t really comfortable with. Despite this, they continued with their relationship but anonymous says her partner’s child is unruly and she doesn’t know how to deal with this as she feels like her...

Anonymous met a guy late last year and they got involved in a casual relationship with each other despite the fact that they were each in relationships with other people. Things got a bit more serious between her and this guy, while things ended between her and her partner. She’s now pregnant with his child but says he’s ill treating her and not giving her the attention she deserves.