#AskAMan

Anonymous has been with her partner, guy no.1, for about 4 years now and things were fine until he lost his job and it created a burden on their relationship. She started noticing things about his treatment of her, realising that he often body shames her and is always speaking down to her. She has now started dating other people: guy no.2, who’s married and has said he doesn’t mind marrying...

Anonymous and her fiancé have been in a relationship for over a decade now and live together with two of their children, including her child, from a previous relationship, and a child they have together. Her fiancé also had a child with someone else while they already in a relationship. Her problem is how her partner sometimes speaks to her, she feels that he can be very insensitive & harsh...

Anonymous broke up with his partner a few months ago, after five years together, because she cheated on him with a guy she had a history with. He feels as though things became problematic in their relationship after he lost his job and couldn’t provide for them anymore. Some time has gone by since the break-up and he’s wondering if he let go of the relationship too easily, he doesn’t want to...

Anonymous broke up with the father of her child 5 years ago after he cheated on her and impregnated another woman. He didn’t support their child after their break-up, and only started doing so after their child turned three. He’s now back in their lives and wants to get back together with anonymous after the lady he cheated on her with cheated on him. Anonymous is open to officially getting back...

Anonymous met her partner in January this year and says their relationship has been great, he ticks all the boxes and she feels quite comfortable being herself around him. This past weekend while they were at gathering with friends, she caught him on a video call with another lady who was complaining that he doesn’t make time for her anymore. Anonymous’ partner says it’s someone he dated before...

Anonymous has been with his partner for the last 6 years, a year ago she moved overseas for a new job and to further her studies. He says communication between them was great at the start of her period away, but over the last six months the communication has not been as regular as it used to be, mostly because she keeps claiming that she’s too tired to chat. She’ll be coming back soon, but...

Anonymous is in her early 40s and is a mother of three. She’s in the dating market and says she tends to attract much younger men, and thinks it’s because of her younger looking appearance. The younger men sexually fulfil her more than the older men that she’s dated, and while this is great for her sexual appetite, she wants to get into a more serious relationship and feels like the younger guys...

Anonymous and her husband met in 2016 and got married in 2022. She stopped working at some point and started her own business. A couple of years later her partner, who’s much older, was retrenched due to the Covid pandemic, she suggested different things for him to try including helping in the business, but he hasn’t done much since. Her husband got a large payout after he lost his job and when...

Anonymous has been married to her partner for about 10 years now and they have two children together. She travels often in her job and back in 2018 ,when she got back from a work trip, she noticed suspicious messages on her partner’s phone with another woman, but she didn’t want to read too much into it and ignored this. This behaviour continued and upon her return from another work trip, the...

Anonymous started dating his partner back in 2017 after they’d known each other for a few years. They have a child together with his partner, however, he doubts that he’s the father of this child. The situation is a bit familiar for anonymous as he has his suspicions that his parents might not be his biological family. This background has made it difficult for anonymous to deal with the questions...