Caribbean vacations are great, but that’s not where our marriages get strengthened. It’s the everyday affections and moments of connection that keep our relationships strong. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about ways to show our wives we love them every day.
Why This Matters
Husbands should aim to make their wives feel loved every day.
Key Takeaways
· Love is a basic human need.
· Everyday affection beats infrequent, grand gestures
· Connection is built in small, consistent moments.
Practical Tips for Husbands
1. Handle conflict with kindness.
2. Respond to her bids for connection.
3. Celebrate her wins.
4. Laugh together.
5. Show love through non-sexual touch.
Important Episode Timestamps
00:03:11 – 04:10 | Why Small Acts Matter More Than Big Gestures
04:10 – 05:09 | Radical Selflessness Builds Strong Marriages
05:57 – 06:47 | How You Start Conflict Predicts Marriage Health
06:47 – 07:41 | Handling Conflict With Gentleness Instead of Negativity
11:48 – 12:11 | Responding to Your Wife’s Bids for Connection
12:11 – 12:59 | The “Stop and Drop” Rule for Husbands
14:09 – 15:21 | Celebrating Your Wife’s Wins Builds Intimacy
18:00 – 19:04 | Why Non-Sexual Touch Is So Important in Marriage
19:04 – 19:39 | The Power of a 20-Second Hug
21:37 – End | Choosing Daily Connection Over Autopilot
APD Pro Move:
This week, choose to do one of the five actions steps with your wife.
All Pro Dad Resources
Episode 91 – Is There a Secret to Balancing Marriage and Fatherhood?
Episode 101 – How Does Having Kids Change Your Marriage?
Episode 105 – How Do I Keep Fighting For My Marriage?
How 4 Minutes 4 Times a Day Can Protect Your Marriage
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