#92 Why Chasing the Future Is Ruining Youth Sports and What Actually Works Instead

We love to talk about the future — rankings, opportunities, exposure.

But real development doesn’t happen out there.
It happens today.

After nearly a decade running one of the most demanding youth basketball camps in the country, I’ve watched the same pattern repeat itself: kids grow fastest when the environment protects the present — not the promise.

In this episode, we explore why sports like basketball and swimming are such powerful teachers of life, how discipline and belief systems transfer far beyond the game, and what happens when preparation finally meets opportunity.

I also share a personal story about my son Elliott — years of five-a-m. workouts, quiet work, and a decision not to chase basketball professionally — and why that outcome mattered far less than who he became.

This isn’t about hype.

It’s about habits.

And why taking care of today changes everything that comes next.

Stay sharp. Stay skeptical. #SpotTheGaslight
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