22 October 2026
Why That Coworker Drives You Crazy (It’s Not Them): with Kenny Whitelaw-Jones
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Ever notice that one coworker who drives you crazy?
It might have less to do with them than you think.
Bill talks with Kenny Whitelaw-Jones, co-founder of infrastructure finance firm Gridlines and now a shadow work therapist, about his upcoming book The Shadow at Work.
They explore how the parts of ourselves we hide show up as triggers and projection, why leading a team is its own kind of shadow work, and why psychological safety drives performance.
Plus: the workshop exercise that showed Kenny how projection works, and Bill’s two-minute Starbucks recipe for beating social anxiety.
Connect with Kenny: https://www.deepprocesstherapy.com/
Connect with Bill: https://40pb.com
It might have less to do with them than you think.
Bill talks with Kenny Whitelaw-Jones, co-founder of infrastructure finance firm Gridlines and now a shadow work therapist, about his upcoming book The Shadow at Work.
They explore how the parts of ourselves we hide show up as triggers and projection, why leading a team is its own kind of shadow work, and why psychological safety drives performance.
Plus: the workshop exercise that showed Kenny how projection works, and Bill’s two-minute Starbucks recipe for beating social anxiety.
Connect with Kenny: https://www.deepprocesstherapy.com/
Connect with Bill: https://40pb.com